
One Sunday a few weeks ago prior to church, I found that I needed to take the trash out prior to leaving. Having dressed already (but not having my shoes on), I grabbed my pseudo-Birkenstocks (plastic, $10.00 from Wal-Mart, used as "camp shoes) on hikes), grabbed the trash, and headed out.
Looking down, I suddenly realized I had become my father.
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TB The Elder had two modes of "dressing up".
The first - the one I remember most from my childhood - was him in slacks with a button up shirt and cowboy boots. This would have been his Sunday "Going to Church" or other events that were not jeans appropriate (I can count on my two hands the number of times I remember my father wearing a suit to anything, including his children's weddings).
Then, sometime in his mid-50's, my father discovered Birkenstocks.
How he discovered them I have no idea: I suspect 25 year old TB The Elder would have loathed them. But 55-60 year old TB The Elder found them incredibly comfortable.
He wore them everywhere: in the house, out and about - almost everywhere. The only time he specifically did not wear them was when he was working outside or in Winter when he had to go out to the woodshed to transport wood. Otherwise, they were he constant walking companion.
And so - in TB The Elder 2.0 - he would often be found more or less as the picture above on Sundays: button down short sleeved shirt, jeans, and Birkenstocks.
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It is odd, how these moments of becoming like my father strikes me.
I have related before that for many years I felt TB The Elder and I were very different people indeed: different interests, different emotional makeups, different trajectories - really, just sort of randomly thrown together into a family by luck and genetics. It is only over the years of adulthood - and in those, really in my 50's - that I have come to appreciate how much more similar we were than I had every thought.
The fact a random set of clothes reminds me of him no longer comes as a surprise.
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I still have a fair interest in my wardrobe, as it were. Some of that is driven that I am still in a "professional" environment (although I am hardly "professional") and have to dress (to some extent) like I am an adult. And to be fair, I have gotten more into vests and the associated long sleeved shirts (the climate here in New Home 2.0 is much more forgiving in that regard), mostly to accommodate my pocket watch and chain habit. Which, as I am informed by the young people, means I have "Drip" (which I am informed is a good thing).
The vest and watch would, I think, make TB The Elder happy. Although I suspect he would still recommend Birkenstocks.