23 December 20XX+1
My Dear Lucilius:
My wife has informed me that there will be a Christmas in this community this year.
Even in my short time married to her, I hesitate to contradict her unless I am rather certain of the facts. In the case I tried to point out – gently – that given the state of things, this might not be the year, especially given the weather and the fact that as a community we were – perhaps – just healing.
She pointed to the four candles on the Advent wreath and a fifth one in the middle, to be lit on Christmas day. Being a man of wisdom and virtue, I quickly retreated from my position.
I carefully busied myself for the rest of the day while my wife was away “on errands”. By the time she arrived home in the late afternoon – given we are just past the Winter Solstice, effectively almost sundown – she had that sort grim happy determination of someone that was told they could not do something but went ahead and did it anyway.
I have been informed, Lucilius, that I had “best get my jolly on in two days”.
Finding my role models in the Wise Men from the East, I believe I will comply.
Your Obedient Servant, Seneca
Hope, "Rebellions are built on Hope"
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So get your best happy face ready friend but keep your friends close.
Rebellions are indeed built on hope Michael, a belief that a better day is possible even if one does not make it there one's self.
DeleteTwo things relating to marriage have stuck with me throughout the years.
ReplyDeleteThe first was a billboard I saw along the interstate in Minnesota some 35 years ago. I don't remember what it was trying to accomplish, only that is said, "Marriage is the only war in which you sleep with the enemy." I am mindful of that in any disagreement.
The second was listening to an old man talk about the secret of his long marriage. He said, "I pick and choose my battles." That has served me well and also apparently Seneca.
Seneca has learned NOT to spit into the wind TB........:)
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