tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14404262.post6126400494099881962..comments2024-03-28T18:44:08.125-07:00Comments on The Forty-Five: On The PastToirdhealbheach Beucailhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14872794169534403463noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14404262.post-55021847844849066412017-09-16T10:21:43.080-07:002017-09-16T10:21:43.080-07:00Thanks for the kind words, Glen.
Yes, I am of th...Thanks for the kind words, Glen. <br /><br />Yes, I am of the self inflicted salt-scrubbing group as well. All my own fault, of course - any events (and frankly, any damage) have long passed into horizon at this point and (probably) only live on in my own memory, which keeps trying to resurrect the dead.<br /><br />Honestly, the healing process would move a great deal faster if I could simply allow myself to heal instead of continually picking at the scab, as if somehow that makes things go any faster.Toirdhealbheach Beucailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14872794169534403463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14404262.post-20376536588952084782017-09-15T16:29:17.097-07:002017-09-15T16:29:17.097-07:00Wow. If I was was smarter and better with words I ...Wow. If I was was smarter and better with words I coulda wrote that one word for word TB.<br /><br />I'm one of those dummies that rubs salt in his own wounds too - self inflicted and otherwise. Been doing it for years too... but in my case... I'm slowly leaving the anger and hurt behind. It takes time - I think because grieving is a process. It's just the ego and psyche trying to heal itself. Or maybe it's the heart and soul.<br /><br />I dunno why they have grief counsellors - it's not like they can make the process any easier or better, right? For me all I could do was take my lumps, and wait for the cuts to heal and the scars to form. <br /><br />You're doing fine - sounds like maybe your hurt was a little bit like mine and if so, you'll get past it eventually. For now, just try to forgive yourself and the rest will come later.Glen Filthiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03256741311142364722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14404262.post-22232567044272579712017-09-14T16:23:53.805-07:002017-09-14T16:23:53.805-07:00Thanks Linda. Just trying to face up to the fact ...Thanks Linda. Just trying to face up to the fact of where I am in life and move forward.Toirdhealbheach Beucailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14872794169534403463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14404262.post-86535766236961476992017-09-13T20:42:29.145-07:002017-09-13T20:42:29.145-07:00*hugs**hugs*LindaGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12203719919661519350noreply@blogger.com